Friday, December 30, 2016

There's No Place Like Ohio for the Holidays--Part I

It was my parents' turn to have us at their house for Christmas this year. They celebrated that fact by deciding to go to my brother Phil's house in Ohio. But we didn't let them escape that easily. We decided to go to Ohio for Christmas, too. And 3600 miles later we'd had a grand Christmas adventure.

We always hate the morning of leaving for a trip. It seems like you think you're all ready then you wake up at the crack of dawn only to realize there were four thousand little things left to do and you don't actually leave until two hours later. We determined not to have that happen to us this year. We orchestrated every last detail. Aaron and I knew our 4:30 am assignments to perfection. No one was allowed to wash their face or brush their teeth. And we were in the car on the way by 5:04 am. It was a smooth operation. But I did regret the no teeth-brushing later on.

The worst weather we had was in Park City where there was lots of snow and bad visibility. After that, we had not one speck of unfortunate weather. The kids were amazing in the car. Annie had been given a portable CD player for Christmas from her Dennis grandparents. Hours and hours of listening pleasure. It was fantastic. Scotty colored and played on the tablet and ate food and looked at books.
Good thing the Ninja turtle pillow was featured so prominently in these pictures.

When we were halfway through Nebraska, we got some very disappointing news. My dad had a medical emergency (he's better now), and he and my mom would not be able to come for Christmas. Much sadness ensued. Despite being willing to chase my parents across the country, it appears we were just not meant to be with them this Christmas. We pressed on, though, and were still very excited to get to Phil and Kelsey's house.

We arrived later than we needed to because we got lost in Tiny-Town, Ohio and didn't have any cell service or access to google maps or anything and we'd accidentally typed in the wrong address when we had been in civilization. Phil told us the spot we ended up in was probably the one spot in the area we wouldn't have cell service. There were other spots, too. Curse you, T-Mobile! So cheap, yet so unreliable.

Like a true brother, Phil came out looking for us. He said a little prayer and found us right before we were going to go back to the place where we'd first gotten lost. It would have been hard for him to find us there. We arrived at Phil and Kelsey's lovely home, chatted for a minute, and crashed into bed.

Before I went to bed, I had to tell Annie to go to bed several times. I could still hear the girls talking, but I was so tired I told myself they'd surely be sound asleep soon. Phil found them downstairs at 3 am writing a Christmas play. Crazy people! I found the script later. One of the lines was: "Tomorrow is Christmas! And I, I, I, I don't even have any sparkles yet!" The late night brilliance was really taking effect.


The next day the kids played, played, played. And we got reacquainted with our little nieces and nephews. They are great kids! Little Tommy decided to be my friend which was the best. I sat on his couch, and he just snuggled up to me, and we got along great. It's so interesting to see the different personalities in kids that come from the same two parents.

Phil and Kelsey's house is on a very large lot. It feels rural, but they have neighbors and Walmart is ten minutes away. We had fun touring their property seeing their animals and their fruit trees and their lake. It was a beautiful area, even in the dead of winter. They had a goat who kept trying to eat the buttons on my clothes. He was the son of their mama goat who was not their. She was on a "date" at another farm. They had chickens. When the roosters crow too loudly, Kelsey threatens to eat them first. That's not an idle threat, but I'm not sure if the chickens understand it. They also have an enormous, fluffy dog. He kept leaning into me in a friendly way and almost knocking me over. Phil and Kelsey had a cat for a while, but that ended tragically. If you want a good Halloween story, ask them to tell you about the Charred Jar Ghost Cat.

Sunday, December 18, 2016

Annie's 7th Birthday Party

Ancient history...Annie turned 7 years old. Since it's (probably) our last year in this ward, I let Annie have a birthday party with all of her friends. She has a group of amazing friends! We feel very blessed. The party was a good reminder of how much these little people mean to us.

We had crafts (curse you glitter glue!) and a pinata. Macey's had one for $7--a great deal, but it was a little too sturdy.
All the kids got several good whacks in. We should have let them hit more/harder.

Annie's birthday is so close to Halloween that we decided to have a cake made of fruit (not to be confused with a fruitcake) to avoid any more sugar overload. On a side note, melons and berries are expensive in the fall.
Happy birthday to Annie! She is a great girl. She loves to chat and asks lots of questions about everything. She is really trying to figure out the world. She has started tuning in to our conversations. We discovered that we'd gotten pretty lax in the things we say around Annie (aka "The Recorder"). It's fun and intimidating to have an older kid. We're learning a lot and figuring out this new world, too.

Tuesday, November 1, 2016

Fall Fun

My parents spent a whole week in our neck of the woods during October. We really made the most of it while they were here. We went to my niece's choir concert, celebrated Grandma Sandberg's 110th birthday, went out to dinner together, attended a student film festival, celebrated Aaron's birthday and our ward primary program, and went to a pumpkin patch. It had a corn-kernel playland, corn maze, haunted house (aka haunted storage unit), and a petting zoo: home of the saddest kangaroo ever. And the Bluemlein cousins just happened to be there, too. Great minds...

We also went to the BYU homecoming parade, which I still maintain is the best one around. You don't have to come early to find a good spot. There are free pancakes before hand. Tons of candy. And it's over before anyone gets bored. This year, I cheered for the JDawgs float, and they threw me some free, foil-wrapped goodness. See? Best parade.
We had a fun little birthday celebration for Aaron in the backyard after our primary program that weekend. Sadly, I forgot to take pictures. Awesomely, Aaron is now half-way to 70. 

I decided to take it easy on Halloween this year because it felt like we celebrated Halloween about five times last year. Too much! So this year we just went to the ward trunk-or-treat and called it good. Okay, so we did also carve pumpkins on actual Halloween, but that wasn't so bad.

I wonder if these two will ever get any closer in height.

Does Annie not look like a full-grown woman? Is she going to prom already? Scary!

Friday, September 30, 2016

"And at last we see the light..."

Aaron finished his fifth and final paper for his dissertation. He and I got in a rowboat and set off paper lanterns to celebrate.
At least, that's what we did in my mind. In reality, we took the fam to Coldstone where we told the kids they could get whatever they wanted. We were reminded why we never have (and never will again) take the kids to Coldstone. They just don't appreciate it. Annie chose oreo creme as her base and put gummy bears and sprinkles in it. Blech!

We were in Idaho visiting my recently-returned-from-a-mission parents when Aaron finished. He got up at 4 in the morning on Monday and finished by 9. Then he came upstairs, raised his arms in victory, and we all cheered. The Provo aunties were there, too. It was nice to be able to rejoice together. 

It's been such a long road, and it's not over yet. But the tough mental work is done. And it's just so great! Now to put all the papers together into a dissertation, schedule a defense, actually defend, and find a job. We can do it! 

We had a lovely weekend visiting Idaho. My parents stopped at our house on Wednesday. We made them a sign.

On our way up to my parents' house, we stopped to see my 93 year old grandma and my long-lost cousin Hannah. It was a nice little visit. I'll have to add pics later. My grandma is an amazing woman! She is always cheerful despite her many health problems. And Hannah is a fellow homeschooler!

It was nice to see my parents were reunited with their little town. Everyone was so happy to see them. The aunties and sisters and elders from the ward helped get the house in working order. The ladies went to the women's session together. After, they served the best cinnamon rolls ever. 

Sunday we heard the mission reports, which were great, and had a Texas feast. Annie had been praying for that meal for about a week. I'm not sure why she felt like she needed to pray for it to go well, but her prayers were answered. The brisket, cornbread, potato salad, coleslaw, blackeyed peas, banana pudding, and peach cobbler were delish! 

My parents were excellent, faithful, productive missionaries. We're so proud of them. And glad to have them closer for a little while at least. 

And it's just really great that Aaron finished that paper. Did I say that already? Hallelujah!

Monday, September 19, 2016

Sandberg Family Reunion

So there was this one time when I planned a reunion for 100 people.

I cannot tell you what a surreal experience it was. I am the seventh child of a sixth (and youngest) child. My aunts and uncle and even most of my cousins have always seemed very grown up. This year when Uncle Gilbert wrote me a check for $4000, I definitely felt initiated into the grown-up club.

As I planned and executed the reunion activities I was constantly plagued by the feeling that I was an impostor. Luckily my sister Felicia, a real adult, was my co-planner. So glad we were there for each other. And somehow everything went okay. It wasn't perfect, but I think people had a pretty good time.

Here was the basic itinerary:
Friday July 29:
1-3 pm: Hang Time
5 pm: Bonfire at Nunn’s Park

Saturday July 30:
11-1 pm: Lunch at Charlotte and Kathleen’s church
1-5 pm: Swimming/playing at the Rec Center
5-7 pm: Dinner on your own
8 pm: The Music Man at Sundance Summer Theater

Sunday July 31:
11:00 am: Lunch at the chapel pavilion
1:00 pm: Church

And here are some pics I managed to take.
I'm so glad my parents were able to be there. I'm not sure I would have survived the actual reunion without them.

My favorite activity was the play--my former acting professor played Mrs. Paroo. She was amazing! Every moment she was on the stage was a treat. It was cool to see her doing all of the things she had been trying to teach us college kids to do. I also thought Harold Hill was one of the best I've seen (and I've seen many). And there were several lines that I finally understood for the first time. This is saying a lot because I've been in this musical twice and basically had the show memorized. Some of that understanding is being an adult instead of a teenager. But most of it was because the actors actually understood what the lines meant and delivered them well.

Can we just say, though, that The Music Man has a very strange moral message?

My least favorite activity was being in charge of the tickets to the play. I was terrified that we perhaps ordered the wrong number or lost some or forgot someone. I was so relieved when I got those things out of my hands.

Everyone who came was so supportive and kind. I was really grateful for that. Giant kudos to everyone who has planned a reunion in the past and will in the future! I feel your pain. Thank you! And now I can look back and remember that I once did something hard/stressful and survived.